Leadership and Relationships: The Journey Begins
Leadership thrives on strong relationships, and the Book of Ruth vividly illustrates this truth. At its core, our faith in Jesus anchors us, giving hope and purpose even in life’s toughest storms. Without God, we’re adrift; with Him, we’re bound for good outcomes. Join me over the next few blogs as we explore the powerful lessons from Ruth, focusing on the godly examples of Boaz, Ruth, and Naomi—ordinary people whose faithfulness and obedience God used to shape not just history, but specifically our lives as believers in Christ.
Let’s start by peeking at the end of the story in Ruth 4. Boaz, a man of faith and integrity, steps up to do what’s right before God, securing a future for Ruth and Naomi. This act not only changes their lives but places them in the lineage of King David and, ultimately, the King of Kings, Jesus Christ. Boaz’s character, honed by his family’s legacy of faith, his community’s respect, and his trust in God, shines in a simple yet profound moment: “Boaz went to the town gate and took a seat there. Just then the family redeemer he had mentioned came by, so Boaz called out to him, ‘Come over here and sit down, friend. I want to talk to you.’ So they sat down together. Then Boaz called ten leaders from the town and asked them to sit as witnesses” (Ruth 4:1-2).
Imagine if we approached conflicts or challenges with such wisdom: sitting down, man to man, Christian to Christian, in good faith. How much strife could we resolve by following God’s timeless way of building relationships?
Now, let’s rewind to Ruth 1. No matter where you are—whether you’re a middle schooler or in your mid-eighties, God sees your journey. He calls you to follow Him wholeheartedly, trusting His faithfulness. Like Naomi, Ruth, and even Elimelech, we all face hardships, famine, loss, or the consequences of poor choices and disobedience to God. I’ve made my share of questionable decisions, like moving my family across cities and countries: Saskatoon to Calgary, Tampa to Red Deer, Victoria to Calgary, and Calgary to Lynchburg. Each move took a toll, yet God has been with us in each move, weaving His mercy and grace and provision through every step. The Book of Ruth reminds us that God doesn’t cause our sorrows; He walks with us through them, redeeming and restoring.
Ruth 1 introduces themes that resonate deeply: speaking blessings (1:8 and 4:11-12), showing love and compassion (1:10), staying loyal (1:16-18), and committing fully to God and each other (1:18). Naomi, a godly woman, loves her daughters-in-law fiercely, praying for their blessing despite her own grief. Ruth’s loyalty to Naomi and Boaz’s later faithfulness reflect the heart of God’s design for our marriages, our families, and our communities: honoring, loving, and sacrificing for one another.
For us as men, Ruth challenges us to act on our faith, as James urges: “Faith without works is dead” (James 2:26). Love and thankfulness to Jesus must translate into action, praying for our families, speaking blessings over our children and in-laws, and showing kindness in good times and bad. God’s view of family extends beyond blood (Proverbs 27:10), calling us to embrace and sacrifice for those He places in our lives.
Consider Elimelech’s choice to leave Bethlehem for Moab, a dangerous and wicked land far from home. Was it God’s will? Probably not. Yet the story isn’t about his mistake, it’s about God’s faithfulness despite it. Wherever you’ve wandered, God is with you, ready to guide you back to His path. God is on the move. Everywhere. Revival is breaking out. And as is always God's way, in unique and amazing ways.
Men, let’s commit to journeying together. Hardships will come, but so will joy, reunions, and new beginnings. Let’s pray against bitterness, refuse to abandon God or each other, and hold fast to what God has joined. As we dive into Ruth, ask yourself: How can I live out faithfulness and obedience today? How can I show love in action?
Lord Jesus, thank You for Your faithfulness. Soften our hearts, guard us from bitterness, and teach us to love and serve like Boaz, Ruth, and Naomi. May our families, biological and spiritual, reflect Your sacred design and show that Your character lives through us. Guide us to put our faith into action today in word and deed, trusting You in every step. Amen.
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